How To Earn Respect | 7 Steps To Earn Respect

 How To Earn Respect | 7 Steps To Earn Respect


Respect.. We all want it but Are you willing to do what it takes to get it ? 

So First you need to understand that respect is not automatic and It is not Guaranteed. It is something that you have to earn. It all starts with respecting yourself, If you don't respect yourself then you cant expect other people to respect you. They'll sense it and treat you accordingly. 

STEP 1- Take Pride In Your Appearance  

This means your hygiene, This means your grooming, This means your style by taking pride in your personal packaging . You're sending message to the outside world. You dress like crap, Your pants hanging down off your ass with your under wear shown and Guess what ? This is sending message to the world about yourself worth that you don't care. So why should they ??? Gentlemen, People notice everything and treat you accordingly. 

STEP 2- Stand Up For Your Beliefs By Expressing Your True Feelings 

In my opinion, This step in probably one of the most difficult steps to actually master because so many times we get caught in this herd mentality. We don't wanna rock the boat and we're afraid to tell people what we really think, Even if what they're doing is wrong and what you feel is absolutely right. Gentlemen, You need to be an independent thinker in order to command respect.

STEP 3- Speak Respectfully 

Say Please and say thank you. clean up your language, Theres no need for excessive use of profanity. When you're cursing all the time, Guess what ??? You sound unintelligent and ignorant, And you know what happens. You do that and people automatically tune you out. You do not need to curse in order to get your point across.

STEP 4- Think Before You React  

Now this is not something that is easy to do but what i encourage you to do is practice thinking prior to reacting. So many times when you get in to a volatile situation people automatically snap, they react. They don't think, they don't practice exercise and develop emotional decline. This takes practice but the more you practice the more of an advantage you have over everybody else who is emotionally volatile.

STEP 5- Respect Others    

The golden rule you've heard it for years, you've heard it since you've been little. Everybody is like ohh treat others the way that you want to be treated. It sounds simple right but gentlemen i'm here to tell you, respect is a two way street, If you don't show others respect and consideration for their views and feelings. Don't expect them to respect you or yours. The deal is we don't have to agree with people, we don't have to see things eye to-eye are on the same level but the fact is you need to respect where they're coming from and try to understand you may not come to the conclusion that they're batshit crazy but at end of the you listened and tried to understand and guess what ?? They're gonna respect you for respecting them. Another aspect of respecting others is, Don't badmouth people, Don't talk behind someone's back. If you've got a problem, If you've got a issue or If you've got something you need to say to somebody then say it. You can do it in a respectful manner than enables communication as opposed to backstabbing gossip. 

STEP 6- Be A Man Of Your Word   

If you say you're going to do something, Do it. And if you don't then don't lie about it, Be upfront and honest as to why you didn't. 

STEP 7- Try Your Best At Everything  

It doesn't matter if its not something exciting. It doesn't if its something that you're kinda bored with. The fact is gentlemen you need to try your hardest at all times. By doing this your going to be at the improved productivity of all areas in your life. don't settle for mediocrity. Now you may not be the best at something and you may try your hardest then it might suck but you know what, its ok. You gave it your all and thats what counts. Another component to respect equation is that all important first impression. 

Our society needs a serious attitude judgement and it all starts with you and me. Respect yourself, Respect others. This world need a role model. Are you man enough to be one ??? I Hope so. 

 How To Earn Respect | 7 Steps To Earn Respect

 How To Earn Respect | 7 Steps To Earn Respect